Self-Confidence and Boldness
One of the most frequent statements I hear when I tell people that I am a nudist is “I don’t have the confidence” or “I could never do that I am not that bold”.
To be honest this usually comes from women that are bigger in stature and I feel they aren’t confident because they don’t fit what society deems as the normal, and appropriate size for women to be. It stems from a deep routed self-conscious image they have of themselves that has been there for decades.
This also comes from people that have been told from a young age that being naked is bad and leads to sex, or when you were naked it was for sex. You have been told to “cover up” and this has stuck with you.
Being naked in front of others does take a lot of courage. It does take a level of boldness to take the first step to do it. But you make all kinds of decisions that takes courage and boldness every day, or on most days of your life…you just don’t realize it.
This self-confidence issue holds them back from trying out the nudist lifestyle. Some will say they are home nudist but would never go out get naked in front of others because “no one wants to see me naked”.
To that I say, every nudist wants to see you naked! Not in a sexual fantasy type of way, but we want you to get out from inside the house and join us in public. We want to meet you, get to know you, see your smile and be around you.
We want to be there the first time you try it. No need to jump all at once, hang out in a suit, if you feel comfortable go topless. If you get the point you feel comfortable strip it all off.
For those that aren’t self-confident because you are overweight and you feel ashamed it is natural, after all that is what society has taught you. You are beautiful.
Being naked around others isn’t about a beauty contest or picking up people for sex. Most have an assumption that if they go to a nudist resort, beach, or social function it is all Maxum models and everyone will look at them with their everyday body and be disgusted. This couldn’t be further from the truth.
It is truly everyday people of all ages, shapes, sizes, colors and economic status. Key word is “everyday” people.
So I would encourage you to say “fuck you” to society and try it. Be confident in who you are as a woman.
I am extending and open invitation for you to join me in shedding societal norms and your clothes.
Doesn’t have to be today, or tomorrow, it is an open invite. However, believe me when I say that over 90% of you that are trigger shy about doing it will end up saying “it wasn’t anything like I thought it would be, I can’t wait to do it again soon”…or something to that effect. But when you are ready, I will be here; even if just virtually.
Hope to see ya soon!!
R
Picture Credit: The Guardian