Nude with Friends
Have you ever noticed that it is easier to get a few (or more than a few) alcoholic drinks in you, and go skinny dipping in the ocean or in a pool or get naked in a hot tub with friends.
However, on the other hand when you are sober and someone says that you should join them at the beach or layout naked in the sun you say “oooo hell no I could never go naked”. Why is this?
Well, alcohol is the main factor to be honest. But when you have a few drinks to loosen up and strip down isn’t it interesting that no one is really gawking or staring at you? How fun is it when everyone is having a good time, laughing and jumping in the water without a care in the world, then you realize a short time later you are doing it naked…AND WITH YOUR FRIENDS!
In most nudist situations I have been in, both with and without alcohol it is the same situation. Although, as a 20+ year nudist, the first almost 16 years I always had a drink in my hand or beer in my system. With the last almost 4 years sober, the situation can be a bit different, both with friends and strangers.
I have been naked with both nudist and non-nudists, however, being with my textile friends that know I am nudist, I always ask before doing it. If they are uncomfortable I don’t force it on them, but most don’t care as they know it is the way I like to be.
For a good majority of nudist being naked is just what it is…being naked. Therefore, when you are around those types of friends, they don’t want to see you naked so they can check you out for sexual pleasure, they simply want you to enjoy a lifestyle that they themselves enjoy.
Lets be honest, there are some in the nudist community that want to see you naked for their own sexual enjoyment I would be lying if I said there weren’t.
All nudist, both men and women, both young and old, check out other people naked. It is human nature to look at the same and opposite sex, especially when they are naked. This is why at most nudist events or resorts you see a lot of people wearing sunglasses 😊.
For me, I enjoy and admire the human body naked in both sexes. This is also why my favorite type of art is nude art.
It isn’t about how big, or skinny you are. How big chested or flat chested you. Stretch marks or not. If you have a big or small penis. It is about enjoying life without clothes in the company of others.
So I would encourage you to get naked with friends. If you need to start with a bathing suit, or bra and panties. Feel it out and test the water. If you get more comfortable, go topless and if that is your total comfort range, stay that way. If you feel like you can go all the way, then strip down.
There is no rush, it is all on you and the situation.
Hope to become a friend and hang naked soon,
Ryan