How to Tell Someone You are a Nudist
Ryan, veteran, nudist and blogger from Spokane Washington How to Tell Someone You are a Nudist I have seen articles on this before and I think it is a good…
Sexuality: What Does it Matter to You Anyways?
Sexuality: What Does it Matter to You Anyways?
It seems like more and more the headlines on Yahoo or Google (or any other site) is calling out a person for their sexuality. Whether an actor, politician, athlete or any celebrity for that fact it is like it is some huge ordeal which clouts their ability to perform. I just saw the other day an article about a mayor of a large city that was bisexual, and his wife put it best…is sexuality and what he likes is between me and him and our household. I think this has a lot to with the media campaign to divide us which you can read here
As a bisexual male, yes I am bi, yes I like men and women, I haven’t ever found out what the big deal is. Now 20 years ago, sure it was a big deal as I was pretty young and ignorant in my thoughts. The internet was somewhat newer, and I didn’t know how to navigate around it other than my email and favorite porn sites. However, the older I grew, the more my mind changed. My sexuality changed.
(more…)Confidence Issues: Men’s Edition
A good majority of the time I hear women say they are not confident enough in their bodies (weight, breast size, stretch marks, etc.) to go naked in front of other people. This is understandable and I don’t blame you, hell, society has told you and shown you this since you were a child. However, women aren’t the only ones that face this type of confidence issues…men face them as well.
Guest Bloggers Wanted
Have you ever wanted to write about your nudist experience, but didn't have anyone to tell out of fear of not being accepted, people thinking you are a freak or just didn't know who you could tell? I am always looking for guest bloggers to help me share a variety of perspectives and experiences with a growing body of viewers around the globe!
Slow Down the Morning Rat Race
What is your morning routine? Do you open your eyes and immediately shift into third gear and go, or do you take time to set your morning in motion with something positive, and low stress. This could be mediation, yoga, stretching, or just sitting around in peace and quiet.
The Media Campaign to Separate Us
The way they portray things and people in movies, shows, social media posts/memes, and the news fuels bias and personal opinions. Slant it one way for long enough you will begin to think that way, even if you know if you. They know it. How do you think the 50 year failed war on drugs continues to spend billions of dollars every year with zero evidence that it has done nothing but devastate the African American community? If you guess media campaigns, you would be correct.
Review: Arroyo del Sol Clothing Optional B&B
If you find yourself in the greater Los Angeles, or Southern California area and are looking for a great clothing optional place to stay, I would HIGHLY recommend Arroyo del Sol. Whether you are seasoned nudist, or looking for a great first time, you can't go wrong going here!
Southern California Naturist Association: REVIEW
Above is a just a few reasons why I enjoy the Southern California Naturist Association and why I strongly recommend them if you in the greater Southern California area. If you are veteran nudist through a “never been naked in front of anyone” person, this group is for you! Visit the Southern California Naturist Association website today.
Do You Have a Hobby?
I, Ryan, suffer from chronic residual pain from my head to my toes, which over time resulted in getting major depression and anxiety. Also, having suffered many blows to the head resulting in several probable concussions, it has done a number on my memory and focus. To compound the issues, for 20 years I drank heavily to help me in trying to ignore the pain and override depression and anxiety. This resulted in becoming addicted to alcohol; however, on a positive note I just hit 4 years sobriety in June of 2020.
One thing I started to do several years ago to help clear my head was to paint. While I am not very good, it as a few hours to just release any stress, anxiety or issues that were consuming my thoughts and my life. To increase the effectiveness, I began painting things for other people. While many probably tossed them in the trash (which would be for good cause) it helped me to focus joy and gratitude in my work.
(more…)Nudism and Porn
According to a 2018 article in Psychologytoday.com “In terms of basic results, they found that 73 percent of women and 98 percent of men reported internet porn use in the last six months, for a total of 85 percent of respondents.” The disturbing facts are the number of children from age 8 years old and older, that have either intentionally or unintentionally viewed internet porn.
This article isn’t necessarily about porn and if it is good or bad, that is a personal decision and topic.
The problem I find with porn is that it provides a negative stereotyping for nudist.
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