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Nudist step out From behind your mask and be proud who you really are!

Do you live a double life?

Not like one that has two wives or husbands, but one where you play a person in front of one group of people, and then there is the real you when you are alone by yourself?

Let’s be honest, it is tiring isn’t it?

It isn’t your fault

Look at how you were raised, or by what you see on T.V./Movies, or by motivational speakers or “influencers”, or by people you look up to. They all seem to have their shit together and in turn are telling/showing you that you should:

– Be nice to everyone

– Life should always be good

– Why are you so down, there are starving people in Africa

– Buy nice things to show your importance/wealth

– Fake it till you make it

– Don’t cry, suck it up buttercup

– When life knocks you down, just jump right back up

And the list goes on and on.

The result

You live a happy life in front of others, while suffering alone on the inside.

You run your potential life choices through a filter of what would “they” think/say/react.

It is this very reason you are wearing a mask. Living a life that you don’t even f’king like…but you do it because that is what you are told you should do.

Raise you hand if I am talking to you. Like, really, raise your hand in the air.

Time to take your mask off

Ladies and gentlemen it is 2022 and it time to take your mask off and just start living that way you want to live.

It is time we start to live a more authentic and meaninful life.

There is no need to make a big announcement, or even tell anyone about the mask you have been wearing.

You don’t have to be an open book about your life, or lifestyles, you just gotta start living them.

Years ago, I took my mask off and started living life how I wanted to live it. Hell, even in this blog I had started with a mask on hiding my face, but then I realized that it is just nudism (and I don’t work so it won’t affect my professional life, unlike it could my wife).

I became more open about my nudism, sexuality, mental health, and sobriety; however, I don’t make it known to everyone and their brother.

Why? I don’t need, or want everyone to know, simply because I don’t need their bullshit opinions in my life.

Those that I want to tell, I do. Those I don’t, I just keep it from them.

Why this is important

You only die once, however, you live every day.

Why live a half-assed life full of “man I wish I could xxx” and then get to the end and regret you never did things. Stop wishing, start doing.

Seriously, what is the worst that could happen to you if you did things you want to do? You lose some “friends” and family that don’t agree with you. F’ck em.

Look, if someone doesn’t agree with how you live your life and they don’t want to be friends, then newsflash, they aren’t your friends. So nudist step out and start living!

Trust me when I tell you, that your life will really be more satisfying.

So many people want to try out the nudist world but they don’t because they are afraid of what people will think of their imperfections.

My next serious question is (you guessed it) who gives a damn what they think. Now I know you do and it isn’t something you can shut off immediately, but if they don’t like you that is okay.

You can’t, and shouldn’t try to please 100% of the people, 100% of the time. It is impossible and you will never do it, and will end up frustrated and upset that someone didn’t like you (or your thoughts, actions, etc.).

You know why this isn’t important?

Because they are living a double life. They are wearing a mask like you and you will never know the true them because they are trying to please, and impress everyone.

The majority of those people in the expensive cars, houses, watches and clothes that make you think “man they have everything, they must be happy”. They aren’t. They are broker than shit, with $30-50K worth of credit card bills just trying to make you think they have it all.

So I would ask you to consider where you are in your life. Are you wearing a mask to hide the true you out of embarrassment that you like things that others don’t agree with, or heaven forbid “would never do”.

You want to live a life of influence, and truly make others jealous of you?

So my fellow nudist step out and take off your mask and do what the hell you want to do. You will have all the people wishing they could do what you do! And if you aren’t a (yet) a nudist step out and take your mask off and try it! What is the worst that can happen, you don’t like it?

If you are a home nudist, or curious about social nudism but not sure, check out the very first post I made over 2 years ago about Social Nudity and Misguided Perceptions.

I believe in you and stand in your corner,

Ryan